Men seem to be under the impression that a sexy lesbian is the norm for that lifestyle. Sadly, just because a lot of lesbians can be sexy doesn’t mean they all are. Lesbians are just like anyone else. Not all women or men are sexy looking or acting. Neither are all lesbians.

Granted, there are many lipstick lesbians who are simply beautiful and feminine women who love other women. This is what I would consider myself to be because if I want a woman, I want a WOMAN. This is to say I am not attracted to women who are trying to be men. If I wanted to be with a man, I would go find a man rather than even a sexy lesbian. So, for me, it has to be a woman who looks and acts like a woman.

For other lesbians, the attraction is to the more masculine type of woman. They like women, but seem to want to be with a strong more manly type of woman. That’s perfectly fine, and I am not here to criticize it. It’s just to show you the differences.

The lesbians that men seem to find so hot are typically the lipstick lesbians. Each one of these women is usually a sexy lesbian and they are very beautiful to watch together. For instance, in porn movies, how often do you see the women who are having sex with each other portrayed as manly or more masculine men? These types of women most likely remind men of themselves and bring out their fear of any homosexual feelings.

The scenes you typically see in porn movies are usually portrayed by beautiful and very feminine actresses. While they don’t seem to actually kiss or do things quite the way that real lesbian couples do, there is at least a semblance of what can go on between a sexy lesbian and her lover. They do kiss, sometimes for a very long time. They use their tongues while kissing but I don’t know about all that mouth licking they seem to do in the movies. My lover and I kiss deeply for long periods of time and we love it.

We also don’t dive immediately for each other’s pussies. There is a lot of time for exploration and foreplay between the two of us, which seems to be much more sexy than those rushed and rough encounters portrayed in the movies. But again, that’s just my humble opinion. To each his, or her, own.