One of the best and, possibly, healthiest things about young lesbians is that they have already figured out who they are and what they want in life. This is something that way too many people hesitate for too long about in their lives. If you know at a young age that you’re a lesbian, why would you want to try to go through life pretending to be something you are not? Think of all the people, especially guys, which you will hurt along the way as you perpetuate this lie about yourself. It makes no sense.

That’s why it’s so cool that young lesbians are never really IN the closet. As soon as they are old enough for dating, they already realize that they aren’t much interested in dating guys. So, they waste no time at all in coming out and saying they want to be with girls. In this way, there is never any doubt and no game playing. They simply pair up with other lesbians and go on their way. This isn’t to say that they won’t be FRIENDS with guys. But friendship is all it will ever be and this should be understood up front.

If you happen to be a guy and think you can change the way young lesbians think and feel, you are only setting yourself up for heartache. Keep that in mind when you see these hot young girls who are already professed lesbians. You may think you can fuck them and win them over to your side, but it’s not going to work. About the best you will ever get is bi-sexual, but you really shouldn’t count on that either. It’s not that they are being that way just to annoy you. They just TRULY love other females and you can’t change that.

Young lesbians are more mature than you might think. It’s not “just a stage” they are going through. They are going through life trying to find a female mate, just like you are and they are serious about it. When they find a woman and fall in love, they commit themselves, just like you do when you find the woman of YOUR dreams. So don’t think that you will change these girls. They know who they are and they feel good about it, in spite of how discouraged it may make YOU feel. The best advice is to be friends with them if you can, and stop trying to change them.